At a time when Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn are pushing people to put forward their most polished, put-together selves, a new class of mobile applications aims for a bit more honesty.
Among the latest is Secret, created by two former Google engineers who were looking for a way to let people deliver genuine feedback to co-workers. With the app, friends and friends of friends can share their deepest and darkest thoughts, along with gossip, criticism and even plans to propose marriage, under a cloak of near-anonymity.
“This idea that you have to craft this perfect image online,” says Secret’s 30-year-old co-founder Chrys Bader-Wechseler. “That’s stressful. We want to remove that stress.”
Secret joins a handful of apps such as Confide, Whisper and Yik Yak that have become popular – and in some cases, notorious – in recent months, by offering users a way to communicate while cloaking their identities.
What happens when people are free to say what they want without a name and profile photo attached? It’s an experiment in human nature that harkens back to the early days of the Web, when faceless masses with made-up nicknames ruled chat rooms and online message boards.
In the past decade, anonymity has been fading. As Facebook soared to dominate online social networks, the trend shifted toward profiles, real names and the melding of online and offline identities. But as people’s online social circles grew from friends to parents, grandparents, in-laws, colleagues and bosses, many became increasingly reluctant to share as openly as they once did.
“People go on Facebook and say they just got engaged. But what you don’t see is ‘I am going to propose today,’” says Secret co-founder and CEO David Byttow, 32.
Launched in 2012, Whisper is especially popular with teenagers and 20-somethings, with the bulk of its users under 24.
Although anonymity apps are being criticized as platforms for bullying, supporters say they can be tools for preventing mischief. They also have a cathartic value for some users.
“My baby boy passed away recently. I saw his picture today and cried. I cried because I love him and miss him. I’m a guy, so no one thinks to talk to me,” read a recent post on Secret.
On Secret, users are told when a friend has posted a secret – they just don’t know which friend. Whisper, meanwhile does not tell users how, or if, they are connected to a person posting.
“I am a closeted gay guy and the sheer number of hot fraternity guys on campus is a special kind of hell,” read a recent post on Whisper.
Whisper CEO Michael Heyward, 26, says the company’s app does not allow people to “use anonymity to hurt anyone else.” Users, for instance, can’t put proper names into posts unless the names belong to public figures. Whisper also employs 120 human moderators to comb through posts in real time.
“There is no safer space,” Heyward says of Whisper.